The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We’ve added years to life not life to years. We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We’ve done larger things, but not better things.
We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We’ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships.
These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete…
Remember, to spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever. Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn’t cost a cent.
Remember, to say, “I love you” to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person might not be there again. Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
By Bob Moorehead
Of all the paradoxes above, which ones apply to YOU the most.
PRAY, THEN LET IT GO. DON’T TRY TO MANIPULATE OR FORCE THE OUTCOME. TRUST GOD TO OPEN THE RIGHT DOORS AT THE RIGHT TIME!
My Commentary:
The words in The Paradox of Our Time hold up a mirror to the world we live in — and to each one of us personally. We have achieved much in terms of technology, science, and comfort, yet in many ways, we have drifted further from what truly matters.
We have filled our lives with things, but not always with meaning. We accumulate possessions but struggle to build lasting relationships. We pursue knowledge but often lack wisdom. We move faster but rarely pause to reflect. We stay constantly connected to devices but grow more disconnected from one another and from God.
The great paradox is that the more we achieve on the outside, the emptier many of us feel on the inside. We reach out to the farthest corners of space but sometimes cannot reach across the table to connect with those closest to us. Our hearts cry for deeper love, real community, genuine purpose — things that no amount of wealth, degrees, or technology can give.
The invitation in this reflection is clear: slow down, cherish what truly matters, and seek God’s wisdom and presence. Love the people around you. Speak words that heal. Treasure the small, quiet moments. Turn away from the race for more and turn instead toward the simple and eternal truths that give life its deepest joy.
At the heart of it all is trust — trust that God will guide us, heal us, and open the right doors at the right time. We don’t need to force outcomes or manipulate situations. Our task is to love, to serve, to pray — and then let go, trusting that God’s timing is perfect.
My Prayer Reflection:
Heavenly Father,
In a world so full of noise and hurry, I come before You seeking peace. I confess that I have often pursued what does not satisfy — filling my days with busyness, my mind with worry, and my heart with shallow desires.
Lord, teach me to slow down. Teach me to cherish the people You have placed in my life. Help me to speak words of love, to give warm embraces, to notice the beauty in the simple moments You give each day.
Forgive me for the times I’ve tried to control outcomes, manipulate situations, or chase after things that fade. Help me instead to pray — and then to let go — trusting You to open the right doors, to guide my steps, and to provide what I truly need in Your perfect time.
Remind me, Lord, that while the world values what is big, fast, and loud, You move in what is small, quiet, and true. May I build my life on what lasts — faith, hope, and love — and find my joy in Your presence alone. Amen.
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